The best-case scenario is one in which both parents can continue to co-parent jointly after a marriage fails but while there is still a child to raise. This is often easier said than done, though. At Law Office of Michael L. Fell, we have assisted numerous families going through the divorce process.
We have observed both successful and unsuccessful co-parenting on the part of the parents. Today, we’ll provide you four success-enhancing advice. Call us at 949-585-9055 for a free legal consultation.
Keep in mind that your child’s needs come before your feelings
Painful divorces are frequent. Putting aside their angry sentiments might be difficult for both parents, but doing so is best for the child. Remember that your child is going through a tough period as well, rather than focusing on any bad or sad thoughts you may have towards their other parent. Think on what is best for your child while making decisions about child custody rather than just what you desire.
Concentrate on communicating effectively
The phrase “communication is vital” has been said so frequently that it may sound corny, but it is also accurate. Don’t believe your co-parent can understand what’s on your mind. Do not presume to know what people desire or desire not. Honesty is key while discussing your needs and wants with them. It’s not necessary to do this in person. In reality, if you speak mostly by text or email, it could be simpler to keep to the truth.
Keep a unified front
It can be simple to forget that you and your ex-partner are still on the same parenting team. You face the risk of your child manipulating you against one another if you can’t keep a united front. For instance, if your child wants to attend a party that they know they would not ordinarily be allowed to attend, they may trick both of their parents into thinking the other has given the go-ahead. Don’t work against your co-parent; work with them.
Making moving between homes simple for your child
Moving physically between homes is one of the most difficult changes for a child to make. Make this as simple for them as you can. Make sure they are aware of the times they will be at each residence. To save the inconvenience of packing a bag and hauling it back and forth, try to have everything they need at each home. Everyone will benefit from anything you can do to make this process simpler.
We are here at Law Office of Michael L. Fell to assist our clients in choosing the best course of action both during and after their divorce. Call us at 949-585-9055 right away if you’re ready for a totally free and private consultation.